Trauma has a terrible sense of timing. It shows up uninvited during your work presentation, your kid’s soccer game, or at 2 am while you’re staring at the ceiling reliving something from twelve years ago in crisp, high-definition detail. Yet when you...
If you’ve been circling the idea of an EMDR intensive for a while now — reading about it at midnight, adding it to a mental “someday” list, maybe even opening my contact form and then closing the tab — I want to talk you down off the ledge of not...
Somewhere along the way, summer got recruited into the same marketing department as the holidays. It’s supposed to be all lake days, barefoot evenings, and the kind of easy joy you see in sunscreen commercials. And yet — for a lot of adults, summer is actually...
Let’s be honest: adulthood did not come with a manual, and if it did, someone lost it before shipping. Between work, kids, aging parents, and the sheer logistical Olympics of getting anywhere on time, the idea of committing to therapy every single week,...
By Courtenay Baber, Gray Horse Counseling You’ve finally done it. You picked up the phone, made the appointment, and showed up. You are in therapy. And for a while, things are moving. You’re making connections. You’re having those “oh,...
By Courtenay Baber, Gray Horse Counseling Let me paint you a picture. You’ve been in therapy for a while. Maybe a long while. You’ve got the coping skills. You can name your triggers. You’ve journaled until your hand cramped, cried until your mascara...
